Best Positions for Using a Dildo (With or Without a Partner)
Looking to elevate your solo play or couple’s fun with your favorite dildo? Whether you’re diving into the world of fantasy dildos or sticking with the most realistic dildo you can get your hands on, the right position can turn your session into something unforgettable. At Mr. Hankey's Toys, we believe in maximizing pleasure, no matter how wild your sexual fantasy toys may be.
Below, we’ll guide you through some of the best positions to use your dildo, designed for optimal stimulation, comfort, and creativity. Whether you’re working with a massive dildo, dragon dildos, or a perfect penis replica, we’ve got your back (and front).
Solo Positions to Maximize Pleasure
- The Luxe Lounge
Lie back, relax, and let gravity do the work. This classic position is perfect for beginners and experts alike. Pair it with a realistic dildo that has a suction cup base and enjoy hands-free bliss.
Best for: Suction-based dildos like the realistic BBC dildo or horse cock dildo
- The Bent-Over Mirror
This standing position lets you control the angle and depth, plus you get a front-row seat to your pleasure in the mirror—hello, hotness! Use a wall-mounted or long giant dildo to go deep.
Perfect match: Monster dildos and huge realistic dildo designs with added texture
- The All-Fours Adventure
Get on all fours and let the fantasy begin. This is ideal if you’re into fisting toys or want to try a fist dildo with intense stretch.
Great for: Experienced users diving into fisting dildos like the Gut Puncher
Couple’s Positions for Shared Fantasies
- The Double Delight
Use the dildo in tandem with your partner for double penetration. Whether you’re working with a goliath dildo or a sleeker realistic sex toy, the added sensation takes things to new heights.
Recommended for: Couples into XXXL dildo play and fantasy sex toys
- The Oral Addition
Let your partner use the dildo on you while they stimulate you orally. Try this with a hentai dildo or seahorse dildo to add a layer of visual thrill.
Perfect pairing: Visual-heavy toys like dragon dildos and hentai dildo
- The Doggy Drive
Your partner takes the reins while you’re on all fours, using a realistic BBC dildo or massive dildo for deep, controlled thrusts.
Ideal for: Those craving a lifelike experience with realistic dildos
Tips to Enhance the Experience
- Use body-safe lube for smooth entry, especially with large dildo and monster dildos.
- Explore softer dildos for that real feel, explore our range of firmness levels including our Packer Soft option!
- Try toys with customizable firmness for your comfort.
- Mix positions to explore new pressure points and intensities.
